Don’ts for Public Speakers

January 11th, 2008 · 6 Comments

I discovered these tips for public speakers in a book from 1916. Although this list was written more than 90 years ago, these suggestions are still good today. It seems that good speaking habits are timeless.


If you try to remember all of these while you are speaking, you will drive yourself (and probably your audience) to distraction. A good way to use these tips to improve your public speaking skills is to review the list and look for things you do when you speak. Are you a nervous speaker who fidgets or clears your throat? Do you speak in a dull monotone when delivering a speech? Or speak too quickly? Choose one or two bad habits, and concentrate on ridding yourself of them.

Use an audio or video recorder to record yourself delivering a speech. As you review the recording, watch and listen for opportunities to improve. Even if you are an experienced public speaker, you can always improve. I have spoken in front of hundreds of audiences and I consistently receive excellent evaluations from audience members. Even so, I consistently make an effort to be a better speaker at each presentation.

These tips will help you, too, to be a better public speaker.

  • Don’t rant.
  • Don’t prate.
  • Don’t fidget.
  • Don’t flatter.
  • Don’t declaim.
  • Don’t be glib.
  • Don’t hesitate.
  • Don’t be nasal.
  • Don’t apologize.
  • Don’t dogmatize.
  • Don’t be slangy.
  • Don’t antagonize.
  • Don’t be awkward.
  • Don’t be violent.
  • Don’t be “funny.”
  • Don’t attitudinize.
  • Don’t be monotonous.
  • Don’t speak rapidly.
  • Don’t sway your body.
  • Don’t be long-winded.
  • Don’t “hem” and “haw.”
  • Don’t praise yourself.
  • Don’t overgesticulate.
  • Don’t pace the platform.
  • Don’t clear your throat.
  • Don’t “point with pride.”
  • Don’t tell a long story.
  • Don’t rise on your toes.
  • Don’t distort your words.
  • Don’t stand like a statue.
  • Don’t address the ceiling.
  • Don’t speak in a high key.
  • Don’t emphasize everything.
  • Don’t drink while speaking.
  • Don’t fatigue your audience.
  • Don’t exceed your time limit.
  • Don’t talk for talking’s sake.
  • Don’t wander from your subject.
  • Don’t fumble with your clothes.
  • Don’t speak through closed teeth.
  • Don’t put your hands on your hips.
  • Don’t fail to stop when you have ended.

And that brings me to the end of this post, so I will follow the advice of that last tip and stop here.

Tags: Public Speaking

6 responses so far ↓

  • 1 sanaa // Jan 13, 2008 at 12:27 pm

    Peace God you
    Thanks to this lady tips right without these conditions will not succeed in reaching YOU ideas to the public listener

    Thank you.
    Sincerely, respect and appreciation.

  • 2 Simone Engdahl // Jan 13, 2008 at 7:00 pm

    Hi Cathy
    Some great tips and how about a list of Do’s – as well.
    The negatives which are all helpful will make you to focus more on what you don’t want than what you do and guess what- chances are you’ll do more of it.
    Do speak clearly
    Do engage your audience
    Do take a moment to pause, take a drink and then resume speaking
    Do keep to the point

    Blessings Simone

  • 3 Cathy Stucker // Jan 14, 2008 at 8:45 pm

    The book that listed the Don’ts also had a list of Do’s. I will post them soon.

    Your list is a good one. Taking a moment to pause is especially good if you find yourself using a lot of fillers, such as uh, um, you know, and others. Usually that means your mouth is getting ahead of your brain. ;o) Pausing for a moment and taking a breath can help you get back on track.

    Thanks!

    Cathy

  • 4 Teri Salvador // Jan 15, 2008 at 3:22 pm

    I was a very shy kid in school and public speaking was torture for me. It was not helpful when the teacher made me sit out in the hall becuase I didn’t remember some facts. Since College I have been able to reverse the damage, and now enjoy speaking in public. This list will help me to improve my speach and talking abilities, thanks for the tips Cathy!!

    Teri

  • 5 gyuszi bacsi // Jan 23, 2008 at 12:19 pm

    you had to send these advices to the big guys (:

    some of them would fail on an exam …

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